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Chapter 1 The Moment Every Pastor Knows

March 23, 2026

When Leaving Starts to Sound Like Relief There is a difference between the passing thought of leaving and the sustained, serious contemplation of it. Most pastors have the first kind regularly and the second kind occasionally. Both are worth paying attention to. When leaving starts to feel like relief rather than loss, something important is happening. It may be burnout. It may be a legitimate leading from God. It may be the enemy exploiting a moment of weakness to pull you from an assignment that is about to bear fruit. The discernment challenge is figuring out which. And you cannot do that discernment well when you are in the middle of the crisis that produced the thought. You need enough distance, enough rest, and enough trusted perspective to see clearly — before you make a decision that has permanent consequences. "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9 Don't make a permanent decision from a temporary pain. Wait. Rest. Get perspective. The harvest may be closer than you think.

James Bell

James Bell

James Bell is the founder of LiveWell and writes on faith, culture, and the Christian life. He leads from the conviction that behavior modification was never the point—heart transformation is.

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